It is that time of the year again. Hanukkah and Christmas are behind us, and in just a few days it will be 2024. I have blogged in the past about New Year’s Resolutions. You can read those posts here, here, here, and here. If you do not want to read all of those posts again, let me give you a summary.
- A resolution without a plan is just a resolution. If the goal is: ”I am going to get in shape,” what is the plan? A better resolution is: ”I am going to go to the gym 3 times each week.” The more specific you are the better the chances you will achieve your goal.
- Keep it simple. I know some friends who have a whole bunch of resolutions; it is like a grocery shopping list. In Hebrew there is an expression: Tafasta m’rubeh, lo tafasta, which translates as “if you try to grab too much, you grab nothing.” I like the Rule of 3. Choose three things and concentrate on them.
- Be realistic. Many of the resolutions that we make we have made before. Are they actually achievable? Can we identify the reasons why we failed? Socrates said, “Know Thyself;” be honest with yourself about what you can and will do and make the plan accordingly. It is better to have small successes that help to build a pattern.
What is the secret sauce to all of these? Grab a partner. Find someone who is willing to be with you on your fitness journey. It can be a spouse/partner, colleague from work, a friend at the gym, etc. Work together to plan goals and how to meet them. Once that is done, hold each other accountable.
Several years ago when I work at a gym, I was in charge of a fitness challenge. We divided into three teams. Not only did individuals win prizes, but the entire team could win if they met certain criteria. We had a very low drop-our rate for the challenge simply because team members looked out for each other, encouraged each other, and did not want to disappoint others in the group. The same dynamic can work one partner or even a small group. Have each other’s backs and watch the results.
The next week is a great opportunity to think about what went well and not-so-well in the past year. A New Year can be a new beginning. To make the most of it, have a plan (keep it simple and realistic), and grab a partner!
Wishing everyone the best in HEALTH and happiness in 2024!
Kosher Fitness 